(Warning: Some offensive quotes)
I’ve been dragging my feet for some time on whether I should join the mob out there that wants to burn this particular person at the stake, or better yet skin him alive. He has been rightfully installed in the Hall of Shame of one Fil-West forum and called by all names imaginable to approximate his bastardly act. I, on the other hand, have decided to reduce him to something less of a man through this blog, hoping that this scumbag does not victimize another Filipina (as that seems to be his preference) as he goes wife-shopping again.
Now, you’ve heard this before but I will say it again - long distance and inter-cultural relationships involve a wide spectrum of challenges…and challenges. It is hard work. If you think dealing with another person in close quarters is difficult enough, multiply that ten times when you’re trying to make a relationship work with someone who comes from another culture, speaks a different language and carries an assortment of emotional baggage.
Relationships that start online are often viewed with skepticism and they should be. The internet is a landmine of users, perverts and predators, as it is a quarry of good people with good intentions depending on whose name you’re clicking on. The point is, when you go online looking for a relationship, you must be smart enough to identify red flags along the way. Matchmaking sites are becoming fairly popular these days but internet dating is still generally viewed upon as “unconventional” to put it mildly. Where I came from, women who become involved with foreigners are often perceived as green card hunters. It is an unfair generalization, but it also holds some truth. Are there women out there who simply see foreign men as their meal ticket out of the slums? Yes. Are there couples out there who fell in love for real online? Yes.
On the other end of the balance are men searching for partners online for a variety of reasons and motivations. Some profess to have found their soulmates on dating sites, others have simply given up on forging relationships in their localities. Some actively search for potential wives/husbands online, others simply met by chance. And then there are those who think they can import naïve, subservient wives from a third world country and return them when the women turn out to be not worth their investment. Which brings us to this SOB I’m talking about.
Whatever the woman’s motives are for coming to the US along with her young daughter, she decided to marry this “foreign-germ” who, to my horror, is also a father to four kids. Whether she came here for the green card, or that he petitioned her to get a sex slave, housekeeper and nanny rolled into one is beside the point. Well, things didn’t work out quite well. A few weeks later, he came running to public forums where he whined and moaned about how his fiancée was being selfish and immature. He said she wanted to go back to the Philippines. A fair number of forum members tried to calm him down, saying the girl might have just been overwhelmed with having to adjust to life in the US and becoming a mom to four more kids while dealing with homesickness at the same time. He went on to complain about not having the money to fly mother and daughter back to the Philippines. A few days later he announced that he managed to cough up the air fare, something he proudly proclaimed as his “one last kind act.”
The girl’s version of events, however, tells a completely different story. I will not elaborate on her accusations as I do not know the girl personally. What I found appalling was her claim that she had to have sex with him before he gave her the return tickets. You think this guy would deny the allegation, right? When forum members jumped on him for blackmailing his ex-fiancee for sex, he claimed they simply “traded.” He had the tickets; all she needed to do to get them was get naked. He triumphantly summed things up with this statement: “I figured I would f*ck her for the tickets and fill [sic] better about it. She always liked f*cking me out of money, why not some tickets.” To top it off: “I only got 1 f*ck, she got two tickets. So who would you say GOT f*cked?” That right there is the clincher. There’s nothing more sickening than a man trying to prove his dominance over a woman who is left with no options. This slimeball clearly took advantage of the fact that the girl has no money and no one else to turn to but him. Making sex as a pre-requisite to sending the girl back home is the true measure of an individual with two dangling, useless testicles. Did I say he’s a teacher? And can’t spell?
Last I read, he was planning on visiting the Philippines again to meet another girl. I hope the next girl this retard hooks up with is smarter than the last one and will take him to the cleaners. I hope Philippine immigration catches up on him and blacklist his sorry ass. Heck, I hope he never gets out of the Philippines alive.